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🀲 Safety Hub

Our Social Contract

The four principles that make the Double Stop community worth being part of.

Last updated: May 2026

The Double Stop community is built on a voluntary exchange of presence. That exchange only works if everyone honours a few shared principles. These are not rules enforced by a system. They are norms that make the whole thing worth doing.

The Power of No

A "no" β€” whether spoken, gestured, or simply communicated by someone looking away β€” is not a failure of the system. It is the system working exactly as intended. The social contract of Double Stop begins with a single principle: rejection is normal, healthy, and complete. When someone declines your approach, they are not dismissing you as a person. They are exercising the same autonomy that makes you feel safe using the platform. Treat every "no" with respect and move on. That is the entire response required.

The One Signal Rule

One clear, respectful approach is the whole of your invitation. If someone does not engage, does not respond, or declines: that is final. There is no second attempt, no following them to another part of the venue, no waiting nearby in the hope that something changes. The One Signal Rule is not merely about etiquette β€” it is about making it safe to broadcast your location in the first place. Every user's confidence that they can post without fear of persistence is the foundation on which this platform rests.

Graceful Exits

Both parties have the right to end any interaction, at any moment, for any reason, without explanation. "It was lovely to meet you β€” I need to head off" is a complete sentence. It requires no reason, no apology, and no follow-up. The ability to leave gracefully β€” and to let someone else leave gracefully β€” is not a courtesy. It is a commitment to a space where people can engage freely because they know they can also stop freely.

Public Presence Only

Double Stop interactions take place in the public venues where the original post was made β€” cafΓ©s, parks, transit hubs, public spaces. If anyone ever asks you to move to a private location β€” a car, a private apartment, anywhere away from the public setting β€” decline. Our safety model depends on interactions happening in visible, populated environments. Leaving those spaces means leaving the framework that makes this safe for everyone.

By using Double Stop you accept full responsibility for your own safety during any in-person interaction. Double Stop is a neutral platform and is not liable for the actions of any user. For full details see our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.